There are some things we can do in all our relationships to develop and maintain strong bonds. This is true because among all our differences, likes, dislikes, and prejudices, we are all people who desire social connections. The following tips should be used in all your relationships to build bonds that will last.
Be grateful
This may mean different things in different relationships, but the overall mood is the same. If they do something kind for you or take the time to support you when you need it, be grateful - acknowledge their care and concern.
Spend time together
It can be challenging to find time to hang out when we are all busy, but it is vital for all relationships. If necessary, set up a standing appointment so that it happens automatically. This way, you will make sure it happens because you will get used to planning other things around you.
Communicate honestly
Sometimes you may be tempted to bend the truth to avoid conflict, but your relationships will be much healthier overall if honesty is highly valued. It is possible to be honest without being brutal. Choose your words carefully and be as diplomatic as possible while sharing your feelings openly and honestly.
Forgive faults
Forgive them for their eccentricities and annoying habits, and forgive yourself when you make mistakes. We all have faults and shortcomings that we bring to every relationship. Sometimes, to keep the relationship healthy, we have to conclude that their presence in our lives is more important than the little habits that drive us crazy.
Give them support
Between all the good times, there will undoubtedly be times when the other person could use a helping hand. Whether it is helping them move, inviting them to dinner when a loved one has passed away, or being a sounding board for a difficult decision, any relationship worth nurturing requires some awareness. And the other person deserves it, just as you do when you need it from them.
What you do to others
It is truly a good idea to always live by the Golden Rule, but this applies to relationships that are important to us. If you are wondering if something you could do is likely to upset them, it is probably better to talk to them first. Wouldn't you want them to do the same for you? It's better to err on the side of caution.